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Don’t be “shell-fish”

Don’t be “shell-fish”... delegate. Okay, maybe that’s not the exact phrase, but as I sit here at beach with the children enjoying the end of summer, I’m feeling a little playful.

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Change is scary at any age

It’s the start of school here in Atlanta, and that means the usual anxiety that comes with change and growth are just around the corner.

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Why we lie

Have you ever lied about why you were not able to make a meeting at work? Did you not want to tell your boss or coworkers that you had something personal to take care of?

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“Feedback is a Gift”

“Feedback is a gift.” This was engrained in me early in my professional career as a part of a Fortune 100 company who followed the strategies outlined in “The Oz Principle."

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Pick the Right Tool

It’s important to use the right tool for the right job. I bet you can hang drywall using a stapler if you had to, but wouldn’t it be better to also have a saw, a hammer, and a screwdriver available to use?

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Camera On or Camera Off?

I know many of you are tired of video meetings but is it because of the “on camera” stress (also referred to as zoom fatigue) or is it that the camera is an unwanted accountability partner? 

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There are only a few “Top Priorities”

The new year is a time filled with possibilities, but to many employees this time of year can be overwhelming. At the end of the year, we can point to what needs to be finished, what can be wrapped up nicely and what we are just going to have to abandon, but at the beginning of the year, hopes, dreams, and previously set commitments abound.

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Are you running to a job or from one?

“Are you running from a job or to one?” This is the question I posed to a women I mentor recently. This is a question I pose to everyone who seeks my advise about a job change.

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I worked on vacation, and I’m not ashamed of it.

As a salaried employee, I am paid to get a job done, so that’s what I do. This is not so say that vacation is not important - finding time to recharge is critical to maintain high levels of productivity and to avoid burnout.

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Sometimes you just have to get in the water and swim

This is the advice I gave my son at his swim meet when he was asked at the last minute to fill in for a teammate who could not compete. The only problem was that he knew he was not going to do very well in the event.

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Just say “Yes”

Last week, I was re-counting the story to a friend about the year that I gave up “no” for Lent and she suggested that I share it more broadly, so here it goes...Not knowing what to give up for Lent one year, I decided that I would give up the word “no” at work and see what happened.

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Take your Vacation!

Businesses are designed to take as much as you will give them, and then to ask for more. It is up to you to set and then manage those boundaries.

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Performance reviews are my favorite time of the year.

I know you may think I’m crazy, but as a leader, I love that, once a year (twice if you are lucky enough to work for an organization that does mid-year reviews as well) I am given the explicit permission to not talk about the business at hand, but instead to set aside time to talk about my teammate. 

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